My friend is changing and pushing me away, what should I do?

by annonymous

My best friend and i have been best friends for 4 years now. We are both in year 10 and go to the same school. Recently we have been arguing a lot and not talking as much.

I feel like i am always the one who has to apologise and fix everything and it feels such a chore just to be friends with her and i am getting tired of always having to make the effort when she doesn't seem to care.

I feel as if though she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore. She is deffinately changing and i am willing to accept those changes and one way she is changing is that she likes to hang around with the people that she thinks are 'cool' and 'popular'.

Whenever she is with those people she just leaves me and doesn't talk to me and it is as if she feels ashamed to be friends with me. A few weeks ago she told one of our teachers that i was controlling and suffocating her, i had no idea i was doing this and i still don't know how i am. The thought of losing her is terrible and i still want to be best friends, what should i do? Please help!