Don't you think your duaghters grew up the way they did because of the friends they had or things they saw or did?
May 01, 2010 Rating
mother of two young women by: jam
They are adults, making own decisions, nothing to do with how you raised them. Give no advice or "you should/shouldn't do this". Listen with very short comments, then change subject. You have to use self-control to keep your mouth shut. How long did it take me, 40 years after a 2 year estrangement not hearing from my son.
My sons had a hard growing up, nothing like your daughters, one now is a bricklayer, who has a side business along with working full time for a company, the other is a free spirit, and that is putting it mildly, not living as I would want him, but the way he wants to. Accept daughters as they are...Let go!