Mike, 41, USA

by Mike
(Phoenix,AZ, USA)

Girlfriend thinks boyfriend still loves ex wife. I don't know what to do? I have 2 step children that I keep contact with every so often. Ages 21 & 23.

I don't love ex-wife but finds myself acting weird when meeting ex-wife by accident with new girl friend. Or slipping up and said wife when explaining position about ex-wife kids and how ex-wife treats her kids, to girlfriend.

I was married for 10 years total and been divorced for 4 years. Since the divorce I had 3 different girlfriends before meeting the current girlfriend. I have been seeing my girlfriend for over a year. I do not know what to do? I love her and she loves me (for how long?).She has no trust in me and she thinks that I still love ex-wife. It is sad that an awesome relationship went down the tube over a bad ex-wife that I have little contact with. Any suggestion on how to repair this mess?