Managing Financial
Stress:
So
You Don't Lose Your Mind!!!
Managing financial
stress is a must! As a matter of fact, financial burdens are often one
of the most leading causes of stress, anxiety, and depression. Have you
ever said something like this before...
- "I can't go out,
I don't have enough money."
- "How am I going
to pay all of my bills this month?"
- "Christmas is
coming up. How are we going to afford gifts?"
- "Do I pay the
electric bill or buy my prescriptions this month?"
- "I would really
like to get a haircut and buy a new outfit, but I can't afford it."
- "This credit
card bill is not going down! I don't know if I'll ever get it paid off."
Not having enough
money can be a drag! Trust me, I know the feeling! But, it doesn't have
to be like that forever. As difficult as it may seem, you can
change your circumstances.
There are many ways
to regain your financial freedom. And I believe in order to enjoy
yourself fully, at least in this society, you need to gain financial
freedom from debt, have a comfortable savings, and have the ability to
afford the things that you need and want.
But what often gets
in the way is life! There's that car to fix (again), that surprising
medical bill, a job loss, a new baby, a new home with new repairs, and
a depressed/anxious spirit that's having a hard time keeping his or her
hopes up.
And what makes this
extremely difficult is, you don't know how to get yourself out of this
mess.
However, there are so
many resources and people to help you manage your financial stress. And
on this site, you'll only find the best financial information that I
can provide to you (at least in my opinion with what has helped me the
most), so you can improve and regain your financial independence and
freedom!
Getting
Out of Debt Resources for Managing Financial Stress:
Here you will find
what I believe to be the best resources for managing financial stress.
I have used these resources to help me get out of debt in my own life.
Dave
Ramsey:
I love Dave Ramsey!
His book "The Total Money Makeover"
is primarily about setting small
attainable goals for paying off
your debt.
This book has
helped my husband and I through many of our difficult financial burdens.
His technique for
managing financial stress goes something like this..
- Save $1000 for
an emergency fund first.
- After you have
saved $1000 for your fund, start paying your lowest amount of debt off
first.
- After you have
paid off all of your personal debt (excluding a house payment), start
saving more money for your emergency fund and other financial
necessities (i.e. child's college fund and your retirement).
Ultimately, you want to get to a point where you can even pay off your
mortgage.
- After you are
out of debt, stay out of debt by paying cash for everything that you
need and want. And let go of the credit cards once and for all.
Although my husband
and I struggle to keep $1000 in our savings, this fund has helped us
through many problems that would have been hard to overcome otherwise.
As for our debt, we
started on the lowest amount of debt we had in general and paid off our
cars first. We are now working on paying down our credit card payment.
I have to say, his
simple plan has worked wonders with managing financial stress.
Oprah's
Debt Diet:
This plan helps you
track your spending, evaluate your debt, has you sign a "get out of
debt" contract, and provides relevant worksheets for your convenience.
The Debt Diet is a very detailed and goal oriented program that helps
you through all the aspects of managing your money.
Managing
Financial Stress by Making More Money:
Build Multiple Streams of Income
How do you do this?
By doing a lot of research in what you are good at, what you have to
offer the world, and how much time/energy you want to put into creating
multiple streams of income.
The reason I
believe it's so important to build multiple streams of income is
because this creates a feeling of security with your finances. In other
words, if you were fired from your job, the blow wouldn't be as hard
knowing that you had another source of income to back you up.
Here are some ways
to build extra income that's separate from your primary job..
- Build
a Website:
I have built my own website in hopes of creating another income for
myself. In time, this website will be my primary source of income, but
it will never
be my only source because I don't like to have "all my eggs in one
basket!"
However, even
on a website, you can build multiple streams of income. There are
plenty of ways to make money from a site. Here are some examples..
- Google
Adsense: Ads/Advertising on your site
- Affiliates
- Selling your
own products: E-books and other items you have created on your own.
And...
- It's your
own business, so the options for making money are limitless!
- Participate in side jobs:
But only participate in side jobs that you love and that you are
passionate about. Spending your extra time in a side job that is
overwhelming, stressful, or time consuming is too expensive in terms of
your mental and physical health in the long run.
- Learn what you can about
investing your
money:
A great person to teach you everything there is to know about investing
is Suzy
Orman.
She is a great
inspiration for women and men who are financial management "virgins!"
In other words, she walks you through issues of getting out of debt,
what bonds/stocks to participate in, what you can and cannot afford,
and much much more.
I also love
this magazine called,"Money."
This magazine
provides wonderful resources for managing your money wisely. You will
find information such as "Rankings for 1,000 top mutual funds," "Your
Safest Investments," Sure Strategies for Today's Market," and so much
more. If you do not want to spend money on a subscription, then check
out all the free information on the website.
- Partnership:
I truly believe in the power of making your own money and not relying
on others for financial support. However, in terms of marriage,
doubling the income seems to always be better. When both partners in a
marriage are working, managing financial stress is a lot easier. Of
course, this depends on the couple and their choices, however, doubling
the income typically beats living on one income.
- Turn your hobby into cash:
There are many missed opportunities when it comes to turning your
passion and/or hobby into money making opportunities.
Many people believe that it will not be as much fun when your hobby
turns into a "job." However, why not try it out first before you
decide? For all you know, this may be the managing financial stress
opportunity you've been searching for! And better yet, it may not even
feel like a job!
Allowing
Yourself Abundance
When managing
financial stress, it's important to believe
that you deserve
abundance.
Practicing
the Law of
Attraction is a great way to
draw more money into your life. When you go to "The Secret's" website
and click on "Gifts for You," you'll find a free e-book called, "The
Science of Getting Rich." This e-book teaches you that it's okay to
want more for your life and that you have the
right
to be rich! Overall, this book teaches you how to change your mentality
from being in debt to living in abundance!
Stay tuned for more
ways in managing financial stress!
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