Lost Mr.Right

by Janna
(Cairo, Egypt)

A month ago i met the man of my dreams.
We went out. A friend, him and me. We were introduced. I am known by my family and friends as a picky person when it comes to commitment just because i am looking for someone suitable when it comes to marriage.

After several outings i was really convinced by this person and my mind and heart accepted him and it was a mutual feeling. We both wanted a serious relationship and it seemed great. I was extremely happy. He was caring and kind, showed so much of emotions to me. I felt he was Mr.Right and that i finally found him. We kept saying that and he was more excited of course in the beginning.

Then in the last week, he became very busy.
Since i have bad experience with guys and used to hear a lot from my friends about lying and cheating. I think most guys are players.
I told him before than guys get excited in the beginning of the relation and show so much care then become colder but he used to deny this at least from his side.

Since he was studying and working.. Calls became less and he started to get too busy. He used to pass by me everyday to go out after work although he lives far. And that used to make me really happy and we got so attached in this short period. Usually i don't feel attached that fast.
I started to ask where r u ? all that at work ? Then going to study with friends ?
It was repeated everyday since became almost a week, saying having a lot to do but missing me much.

I started to doubt specially that he got a call from a colleague before while we were in the car asking him to meet a date, he wasn't rejecting nor approving. But told me after the call. He didn't tell his colleagues that he is in relationship.

He keeps telling me nice words, very promising about the future and being the woman of his dreams. So when he got too busy as per his say, i started to ask why u disappear, i missed u much, r u still at work ? why don't u study ?

Till last time ..I told him i don't like that he doesn't answer my calls immediately and at the same day at night while studying with his friend he didn't answer then answered in a firm way without mentioning my name or which gender i might be.

I got crazy and sent him an sms saying : i don't like your way. he replied sorry. I said no you are not at all bc u keep repeating the same things, seems u dont' care at all. Anyway good luck and since that he didn't show up and he asked we should have a break then things ended. I really dunno the truth although he said lots of stuff.

Is it my mistake or does he have some issues i didn't know about?

Pls advise i need to know and learn what happened is it me or him ? And can i have him back ? I really can't believe how easy it is for him to end it that way and fast like that ..Where r his nice words and promises to me ?