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Apr 21, 2010

Im Sorry
by: Anonymous

Im so Very sorry and I hope every thing gets better just believe in your self

Apr 12, 2010

Dont do that you are awesome
by: Anonymous

CALL THE NUMBER ON WHOEVER YOU KNOW IS TRUSTED AND GO TO A FOSTER HOME AND IF THEY ABUSE YOU WHICH I HOPE THEY DONT THEN YOU KNOW WHAT CALL AGAIN AND IF YOU DONT SOMEONE WILL AND IF I KNEW YOUR ADRESS I WOULD HAVE REPORTED THAT YOU ARE BEING ABUSED BECAUSE YOU DONT AND YOU SISTER DONT DESERVE THAT KIND OF TREATMENT

CALL NOW ITS FOR YOUR GOOD

Sep 21, 2009

Im a survivor
by: Rachel

Honey I dont even know where to start so let me first say to you. You are not a failure. You are stronger that you actually think you are, talking about something like this is very hard, I know because I was abused from age 12 years until i was 14.

I can tell you that i never had anyone to talk to, my family was a bit like yours blind to the abuse that was going on. You are most definitely being abused, no parent should do that to their children.

I went into foster care and I was lucky enough to be with a good carer. Don't let anyone dictate your future for you because I would rather be in foster care where i am safe and have support than to be stuck in a house of people that hurt me.

Another thing, suicide is not the solution i tried it and it made me feel guilty, but most of all I knew that if i committed suicide who will be there to protect my sisters from the abuser, it was the love and concern i had for my siblings that kept me going. So find something you love more than yourself, your sister.

If you go how do you think he will treat her when your gone. Do it for her. Don't suffer for your parents mistakes. Get your strength back, If you have to ask God to give you the strength that you do not have. Please i am begging you find a child hotline and get your sister and yourself out of there.

You are too precious to leave. Do you know why? You are a child of God, a child is a blessing not a curse, and you and your sister were put on this earth for a reason, and you have not yet fulfilled it.

Good Luck
Rachel (England)

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Sep 21, 2009
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Honey I dont even know where to start so let me first say to you. You are not a failure. You are stronger that you actually think you are, talking about something like this is very hard, I know because I was abused from age 12 years until i was 14. I can tell you that i never had anyone to talk to, my family was a bit like yours blind to the abuse that was going on. You are most definitely being abused, no parent should do that to their children. I went into foster care and I was lucky enough to be with a good carer. Don't let anyone dictate your future for you because I would rather be in foster care where i am safe and have support than to be stuck in a house of people that hurt me. Another thing, suicide is not the solution i tried it and it made me feel guilty, but most of all I knew that if i committed suicide who will be there to protect my sisters from the abuser, it was the love and concern i had for my siblings that kept me going. So find something you love more than yourself, your sister. If you go how do you think he will treat her when your gone. Do it for her. Don't suffer for your parents mistakes. Get your strength back, If you have to ask God to give you the strength that you do not have. Please i am begging you find a child hotline and get your sister and yourself out of there. You are too precious to leave. Do you know why? You are a child of God, a child is a blessing not a curse, and you and your sister were put on this earth for a reason, and you have not yet fulfilled it. Good Luck Rachel (England)

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Sep 13, 2009

You can never be a failure and you are always loved.
by: Brandy Shirley, M.A.

Lianna,

Although I'm not exactly sure your age, I'm glad you are sharing this story. I know you're afraid of reporting this abuse, but I highly recommend that you call 1-866-363-4276 to report what's going on at home.

I know you rely on the internet for your comfort and social interactions, but try not to let the fear of not having internet hold you back from making that call.

In the meantime, use as many resources as you can to build your self-esteem. This is very important and highly needed when dealing with abuse and negativity. You can begin doing this right now.

Start building your faith in a higher power and put your trust into this source. This is something you will always have and no one can take this away from you..ever!

It's good to cry..let it come out! But self-pity will not do you any good. It will only make you feel worse...this pity will make you feel like a victim who doesn't have any control over their situation. Yet, the good news is..You do have control..more than you think.

You can never be a failure and you are always loved. The reason you feel this way is because you are reacting to your parent's insecurities and fears.

You are a child of God and you were born to do amazing things..don't let your parent's behaviors stop you from shining your light in this world.

To find that peace and love you are craving, look within and you'll find it.

With love,

Brandy Shirley

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Lianna, Although I'm not exactly sure your age, I'm glad you are sharing this story. I know you're afraid of reporting this abuse, but I highly recommend that you call 1-866-363-4276 to report what's going on at home. I know you rely on the internet for your comfort and social interactions, but try not to let the fear of not having internet hold you back from making that call. In the meantime, use as many resources as you can to build your self-esteem. This is very important and highly needed when dealing with abuse and negativity. You can begin doing this right now. Start building your faith in a higher power and put your trust into this source. This is something you will always have and no one can take this away from you..ever! It's good to cry..let it come out! But self-pity will not do you any good. It will only make you feel worse...this pity will make you feel like a victim who doesn't have any control over their situation. Yet, the good news is..You do have control..more than you think. You can never be a failure and you are always loved. The reason you feel this way is because you are reacting to your parent's insecurities and fears. You are a child of God and you were born to do amazing things..don't let your parent's behaviors stop you from shining your light in this world. To find that peace and love you are craving, look within and you'll find it. With love, Brandy Shirley

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