Just know you are not alone and do not take responsibility for their behaviour ... go on being you and remain oblivious.
Nov 05, 2010 Rating
Sibling rivalry directed at mum by: Anonymous
I have a similar problem, with 3 daughters aged between 30 and 40. I am constantly juggling what I should and should not say or do. If I spend time with one, the other feels "neglected". If I babysit my grandchildren I am acccused of not spending time with the other grandchildren. All it is is each vying for my time, but I am also noticing a selfishness in their own personalities that I do not like nor know how to manage.
Oct 21, 2010 Rating
find out why by: Anonymous
ask her whats Really bothering her, go have lunch with her, just the two of you. it could go a long way.