ianpdilemma

by jess
(u.k)

ive been friends (very close friends) with a guy for over 8 years, and we have been very close and know alot about each other. but since he has been with his girlfriend for a year hes drinking and not bothering with his mates he's got fat and he just bitches and is drunk all the time, and he even seems proud of it.

a few weeks ago i fell out with him because i came right out and said i needed his advice and help as i was going through a tough time (we've always been there for each other before) it all flew out of hand because he was always "two busy".

after an argument a week went by then he text me and apologized for being harsh to me. that was the day of my grandads funeral and then he asked me to meet him which i couldnt that day so we arranged it for two days later. when i text him on the day we where supposed to meet he quite abrubtly said, he didnt like me, and didnt want to talk to me ever again. i dont understand what ive done, and i miss him terrible, even though i am angry at him. he now wont talk to me or even try to sort it out. what can i do please help.