sp
Home

Comments for
I need expert friendship advice.please help

Average Rating starstarstarstarstar

Click here to add your own comments

Jan 01, 2010
Rating
starstarstarstarstar 		confused..
by: zks

sorry to bother you again i need help with some of these quesitions in my mind.That friend of mine and i are in the same university and together in all the course classes so our friends are the same..how should i behave in this group of friends where shes also present?,because obviously i cant talk to her and neither will she talk to me.And all other friends are new so they dont realy know of all this.so its realy awkward.we've alot of eye contact as well.how should my body language be around her?and also, should i wish her on her birthday which is after four months? i think i sound stupid asking these things being a guy but please help..
Jan 01, 2010
Rating
starstarstarstarstar 		thanks!
by: Anonymous

thanks Brandy Shirley, i'l take your advice as my aim.thanksalot !
Dec 30, 2009
Rating
starstarstarstarstar 		Let her Go..
by: Brandy Shirley, M.A.

Hi ZKS,

Thank you for taking the time to post your question. I can answer this question based on experiencing this in my own life.

Your friend is afraid of losing her boyfriend and the only way she knows how to show respect for her boyfriend is by avoiding contact with you.

And although I don't want to put false hope into your mind, deep down she still cares about you. The best thing you can do now is move on...stop apologizing. There is nothing to apologize about, you have done nothing wrong.

The more you keep trying to get into contact with her, the more you will push her away. I know it's hurtful, but start respecting her decision that she can no longer be your friend. In time, the two of you may meet up again, and if not, just let it be. You cannot force someone to take you back, it will happen naturally if the two of you are meant to be back together.

It is time to focus on your needs, wants and goals. Do things that make you feel good. Focus on being positive and find blessings in your life. This will help you move on!

My best,

Brandy Shirley, M.A.



Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How?
Simply click here to return to Friendship Advice

Return to I need expert friendship advice.please help
Contact
bt1.shtml Newsletter
Subscribe to the popular Relationship-with-Self Newsletter

Email

Name

Then

Don't worry -- your e-mail address is totally secure.
I promise to use it only to send you The Free Relationship-with-Self Newsletter.

bt1.shtml Blog
Google
 
menu2
HOME
COACHING SERVICES


QUESTIONS/ADVICE FROM VIEWERS
Top of Page
Home | Site Map | About | Contact
Privacy Policy | Terms of Use| Self-Help Resources