I am codependent

by Joni
(United States)

I am codependent, and all my relationships have turned into abusive ones before there ending..I have no boundaries...how do I stop attracting abusive men..What are qualities of a good relationship, that would be healthy for me..I tend to jump in before I get to know someone, and don't get out until I am very hurt..Can you help me please...Thank you sincerely Joni