i am having that feeling too :(, i am totally left out in the group... i am hanging out with 3 people now and the three of them are just so close and they share their jokes that i don't even understand. i feel really left out when one of my three friends joined in and starts to become close to my other two friends. i have always been trying to impress them, but it didn't work.. i try talking to them on facebook, but they never reply to me after a short convo.
i don;t think they hate me, but i do think that i'm just a tiny tiny part of their lives. i have a feeling that they will not even care if i died or exchanged schools. i'm just a tiny character to them... i have found a true friend before, but she ended up being mean to me when highsvhool started. and i guess i can never find a true friend. i am not greedy, one true friend is enough; i really don't expect for more, i just want a friend to be there for me all the times
Jan 05, 2010 Rating
Work on that feeling of "Not Being Good Enough" by: Brandy Shirley, M.A.
Hi Carol,
Feeling left out happens to all of us at some point in our lives. I understand how upsetting it can be, but I can also say that this feeling will disappear once you begin working on that feeling of "not being good enough." As long as you feel good for just being you, people will be drawn to your confidence.
Take some time everyday to say things like "I am good enough" "I am confident" and "I attract positive people into my life." If you are interested in affirmations, I suggest you take a look at my daily affirmation book to help you. Or type in self-esteem affirmations in your search engine on the Internet..you'll find excellent resources.