Share Your Child
Abuse Story..
And
Receive Your Own Professional Advice So You Can Begin Healing!
Sharing a child
abuse story is not easy. Yet, in order to heal and begin having a
better relationship with yourself, it's important to share the
experience with someone else.
Read
Child
Abuse Stories from People all
Over the World!
In a way, sharing
this major event validates your feelings and beliefs about the
incidents endured during childhood.
However, although
your
feelings may be validated, this is only the beginning of healing. You
will have to work hard on analyzing your relationships, your self-talk,
and your overall perception of yourself in order to heal completely.
Yet, there is much
more! You will have to be patient, determined, motivated, and willing
to experience times of trouble, pain, frustration, and anger toward the
ones who have hurt you.
The most difficult
part of healing will be forgiveness.
So, are you ready
to begin healing?
Great!!
Here are the steps:
1.) Get
reacquainted with your past. Go back to those painful memories and let
yourself feel them without judgment. You can begin this by writing
in a journal.
2.) Research books
and other resources about healing from childhood abuse. You need to
gain as much insight as possible during your time of healing. Check out
the free child
abuse e-book if you would like
to start reading material now!
3.) Build yourself
up as much as possible. Build your self-esteem by thinking positive
thoughts and by surrounding yourself with positive people. You can
begin by practicing affirmations
on a daily basis.
4.) Little by
little start letting go of the past. Realize that the abuse was not
your fault, and the one who inflicted abuse on you lacked awareness of
how their actions were affecting you. However, do not justify their
actions. Set your boundaries and learn to trust yourself.
5.) Forgiveness is
the hardest step. This takes time as well and only you know when you're
ready to forgive. Forgiveness basically is helping you. It's about
letting go of that hate, anger, and frustration you have built up
overtime. Imagine what this is doing to your mind, body, and soul.
It's
Time to Share Your Child Abuse Story!
Before you post
your child abuse story, if you are under
the age of 18
and the abuse is still occurring, I have the
responsibility to protect
you. So, please if the abuse is still occurring, let your school
counselor, teacher or another trusted adult-who is local-know what's
going on. Your school counselors and teachers are mandated to help you
by law.
Or you can call 1-800-4-A-CHILD
to report your child abuse story. You can also contact me directly
to report the abuse. I will ask for your name-first and last-and your
personal address. I will want to know what's going on at home and this
will be reported to your local Department of Children and Family
Services.
Otherwise, if you
are above the age of 13, your child abuse
story will be
published online. When you publish your story, you are allowing others
to comment or share their advice on how to heal from the past.
Some stories will receive professional advice. If you are in need of
more support, be sure to get your free
coaching consultation.
So, go ahead,
create a page all of your own where you can vent your feelings and
receive wonderful feedback from others...this will keep you going
through tough times!
Share Your Story?
Go Ahead and Share Your Story..We Want to Hear What You Have to Say! However, before you share..you have read and agree with the privacy policy and terms of use.
What Other Visitors Have Said
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Justice 14 usa
when i was about five i was raped by someone very close to me.i was just a little kid. my life was very hard growing up. i did not no what i was going ...
patricia d, 44 yers. ill.
i am 44 years old and suffered severe abuse from the most evilest woman iv ever met. my fifth mother, from kidnapping to raping me; (while still in diapers)...
Jessica,19,USA
I was tortured in so many ways when I was 14 I had to stay with a neighbor because my dad died and my mom would be working until 7 and she liked to have ...
Tanya, 17, USA
I apologize, my story is kind of long, so thank you for taking the time to read it.
I was never wanted, not even as a child. My so called mother brought ...
Tori, 17, USA
I don't really know how to start this.... so please bear with me. After my mother's drug addiction hit rock bottom I was sent to stay with my sister and ...
Dainon 17
HELLO EVERYONE YOU MAY NOT KNOW ME BUT I AM IN A VERY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GIRL FRIEND. SHE HITS ME ALL THE TIME LEAVING ME WITH MANY DARK BRUISES....
John 76 USA
I suffered physical and mental abuse most of my life. It started when I was about 6 or 7 years of age. I was the oldest of 5 boys and no sisters.
I ...
Tami, 48, US
I have been telling my "Story" since I was 21, trying to get Anyone to Listen. It was met with coldness and I stopped. The look of disbelief was always ...
Jess, 16, USA
Hello I don't know what to call it abuse, rape or what. When I was seven I was home laying in bed in one of my daddy's t-shirts.
Then, I want to say ...
Rachel, 31, England
Years passed and the same relationship with my mum continued, cold, not loved, putting me down until i was totally and absolutely afraid of her, i was ...
Lianna, U.S.A
This is my story and it's still going on.
My name is Lianna, and I've just turned 13. I'm sorry I had to lie about my age but I want my story to be ...
Duane, 31, USA
I am not sure if my story was bad enough to be consider abusive. I'll let you guys determine that. I will say it had a profound impact on me.
I am not ...
Christine, 54, USA
I was the oldest of 7 children/siblings. When I was 4 1/2 yrs old I had 3 younger siblings. I was always held responsible for their misbehavior.
By ...
Robin, 29 USA
I remember as early as 4 years old being beaten up by my mother. My sister, who is 28 now, were close as little kids. We would get into so much trouble....
Angela Chambers, 25, United States, Virginia.
How do I put this. I'm 25, and maybe since I was in my early teens, I have been verbally, physically, and mentally abused. It started with name calling,...
I still love my mother even though she hurt me
I was born into a bad situation. When I was born I never knew why I did not grow up with my mother between birth and 5 years old.
To find out my ...
mehgan 14 America
Well, this could possibly inspire someone, even though I'm only 14, and am still physically and emotionally abused. My mom, too often, makes me bruise ...
Jennifer, 18, USA
When I was 7 my step-dad began to sexually abuse me. I just found out that he told my mother when he started, but because she couldn't take care of herself,...
Hannah,14,U.S.A.
Hi. My story will be long but plz listen to it. my daddy will be home soon. Thank you so much whoever put up this website because i have wanted to tell ...
Trista 28 united states
Well I don't really know that this would be considered child abuse, but when I was growing up I felt like I was never loved as a child.
My parents ...
Paul-37-USA
My father was both physically and emotionally abusive. I can not actually remember how old I was when it started, maybe younger than I can remember.
He ...
Ann, 29, UK
It has been fourteen years now. Fourteen years since I was abused.
I was working in a pantomime group as a stage hand. I came from a poor background ...
Stephanie, 18, USA
When I was 6 or 7, or maybe even younger, I was touched by my father. This only happened once and it never escalated but the event has hurt and impacted ...
NDurham, 42, United States
She was awoken by a presence in her room as strong hands lifted her from her bed where she had been in a peaceful slumber. As she was carried out of her ...
Fred, 28, USA
My story begins with what started off as a normal day of winter vacation. Please forgive me if this is graphic, but I MUST tell what happened as it happened....
Anna-bell 14 nunavut
we where living in Yellowknife alotta years ago there was me my little brother who is now 10 and my younger sister who is now 12 i was like maybe 7-8 years ...
Julie,25,USA
Ok well I was molested as a child by a family member. I was 5 years old when it started and lasted for 4 years, when I finally had the courage to speak ...
Schnapps, 35, US
Over twenty years ago, you walked into my room with a plan to rape me. You made me a participant and paid me. Mom walked in and saw you in my bed. She ...
MsTish!
Hello World...My name is MsTish! and I would like for my fellow industry friends to help me get this story of abandonment-adoption-abuse- and successout ...
Sarah, 21, Canada
Okay, so this is a way for me to tell someone what happened. Maybe if I can type it to a stranger online it might be easier to tell someone in person. I ...
Sasha, 26, USA
Well, Im 26 now but my abuse has been going on since I could remember. Im the youngest of 3. My mother has always been so attached to her church that she ...
Joni, 43, United States of America
Hello, I have had a past filled with some very horrific things, that started when I was about 8 years old..
My father was a Marine drafted into ...
Aubrie U.S
I was mildly abuse when I was little but it got worse as i got older when I was 8 years old.
My dad and mom got a divorce. My mom took every thing out ...
jeremy 37 slc ut
My parents divorced when I was 9 years old. A couple of months later I moved in with my dad. I got a job delivering newspapers in the new neighborhood....
Diane 44 USA
I really don't know where to begin but I feel a strong need to say something and I am not even sure it was abuse, but I am pretty sure is wasn't a normal ...
Emmet, 15, United States.
This is abuse. I know that much. I was 6-8 years old, and it happened with my cousins... and my siblings... which makes me wonder if everyones gone through ...
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