Share Your Child Abuse Story..
And Begin Healing!

child abuse

Sharing a child abuse story is not easy. Yet, in order to heal and begin having a better relationship with yourself, it's important to share the experience with someone else.

In a way, sharing this major event validates your feelings and beliefs about the incidents endured during childhood.

However, although your feelings may be validated, this is only the beginning of healing. You will have to work hard on analyzing your relationships, self-talk, and overall perception of yourself in order to heal completely.

You will also need to be patient, determined, motivated, and willing to experience times of trouble, pain, frustration, and anger toward the ones who have hurt you.

The most difficult part of healing will be forgiveness.

So, are you ready to begin healing?

Great!!

If you are under the age of 18 and the abuse is still occurring, please let your school counselor, teacher or another trusted adult-who is local-know what's going on. Your school counselors and teachers are mandated by law to help you.

Or you can call 1-800-4-A-CHILD to report your child abuse story. You can also contact me directly to report the abuse. I will ask for your name-first and last-and your personal address. I will want to know what's going on at home and this will be reported to your local Department of Children and Family Services.

Also, if you are feeling suicidal and/or homicidal, please contact me directly so I can assist you. Or call the suicide hotline at 1-800-Suicide (1-800-784-2433).

Here are the steps:

1.) Get reacquainted with your past. Go back to those painful memories and let yourself feel them without judgment. You can begin this by writing in a journal.

2.) Research books and other resources about healing from childhood abuse. You need to gain as much insight as possible during your time of healing. Check out the free child abuse e-book if you would like to start reading material now!

3.) Build yourself up as much as possible. Build your self-esteem by thinking positive thoughts and by surrounding yourself with positive people. You can begin by practicing affirmations on a daily basis.

4.) Little by little start letting go of the past. Realize that the abuse was not your fault, and the one who inflicted abuse on you lacked awareness of how their actions were affecting you. However, do not justify their actions. Set your boundaries and learn to trust yourself.

5.) Forgiveness is the hardest step. This takes time as well and only you know when you're ready to forgive. Forgiveness basically is helping you. It's about letting go of that hate, anger, and frustration you have built up overtime. Imagine what this is doing to your mind, body, and soul.

At this time, I am only posting stories that are encouraging and offer hope. I am looking for stories from people who have been abused, have been to counseling or gotten some sort of help, and have inspirational advice to offer others who have yet to seek help.

I am looking for anyone who is now living a fulfilling, happy and successful life regardless of the abuse they endured growing up. If this is you, please find the courage to share your story.

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