i dont know how u got through this but i give u props for doing so.
May 20, 2010 Rating
hi by: nessa
hi will idk wat i would tall u xsept do not clame he as your mother
Apr 09, 2010 Rating
bio mom not my real mom by: jam
Might be you and mother didn't bond right after birth, grandmother and aunts taking over care of you right out of the hospital. Same with my mother then with me and my daughter. She had no choice with me and the mother, but I did the same when my daughter came home. Reason/excuse, I lost stitches on third day, very painful for 6 weeks till they were re-done, then went through pain from stitches a second time. By then the daughter bonded with my grandmother.
I have unconditional love for my two sons, not always like them, but get over that quick. Both I took care of and bonded with right out of hospital.
I'm 63, and have tried for years to figure out why I feel different with daughter and my sons and tried to make up for guilt over this by spending thousands for the daughter. When not giving her money or she has money we aren't talking. This time for the last three years, once for over seven, but now she's broke again and will be wanting to get close, I'm ready for it this time, not a dime going over there anymore. Not going to listen to the "but you're my mother" b/s again.
Finding out true feelings can be figured out by talking it out, even if not right at the time, thinking over what was said when conversations are finished.