Best Friend not so Friendly anymore

by Shawnie
(Cali)

My bff is a guy who Ive known for 6 years. He is like family. Im married we r all friends.

We have always been close. We would do anything for each other. He had a gf recently who hated me. She thought we were too close. So I hadnt seen him in about a month. In that time I decided I was going to lose weight. Ive always been the chunky one. haha Well when he saw me for the first time I was down about 20 pounds. He was shocked when I got out of the car, he just looked me up and down and put his arms out for a hug and said "well u gonna give me some love?" So i gave him a hug and we went inside.

The next time I saw my friend I drove up to the army post to pick him up. He was going to be coming home for 2 wks at christmas. We hung out and talked then drove back to my house, where he usually stays.

Him, me and my hubby went out that nite to a little bar our friend works at. We were having a great time. When one of the guys my hubby and I had met walked in he gave me a hug and my friend freaked out and kept saying u know shes married, this is her hubby, like 5 or 6 times.

Ever since that night any time we talk or text he makes comments about how he will never have sex with me or anything like that. It doesnt ever even fit into our convo. He and I when we first met had hooked up He wont even look at me half the time anymore when he is talking to me. He says I dont support him. I have supported whatever hes done right or wrong a million times over.

He also said he wont share a bed with me either. Which is fine I dont care either way but I dont see what the problem is now after all these years. We have shared a bed and kept it Platonic for years now.

He went as far as not talking to me much anymore, for no apparent reason. And he called my hubby to talk about his ex gf and what he should do about her. Then he went off about how I dont pay enough attn to my hubby when we all go out and im not affectionate enough with him either. My hubby and I are not the kind who will be all over each other like that. He also gave hubby a hard time about our "agreement" and how its not right. Our agreement is that when we are out we can socialize and have a good time, talk to who ever we want, 2. we can go out w our friends and have a good time as long as we come home every night, which doesnt include cheating. 3. Me kissing girls isnt cheating. This has been like this for 5 years now and my friend has never had a problem with it or said anything about it.

And he told hubby that he wants to hang out with just him and not include me when they go out.

My Question is what the heck is wrong with him? Why is he acting like this?