Use your jealousy as motivation.. by: Brandy Shirley, M.A.
Hi Maya,
I'm glad your taking the time to ask these questions about your friendship problems. First of all, if you are not on the swim team..you need to speak to the coach about your skills so he/she can see for themselves how well you swim!
If you are serious about being on the swim team you can practice at a local gym w/ a swimming pool. What you are experiencing is more envy than jealousy. Envy is a little call from your soul telling you to get the ball rolling in your own life..kind of like a little kick of motivation.