Am I doing something wrong?

by Heather
(Califorina)

My so called bestfriend and I haven't been getting along since a huge fight. My friends bday was planned a month in advance and the day before the party my bestfriend asked me not to go cause she asked if my other friend could change his party to another date and he wouldn't. It was the same day as her religous holiday ( she's Jewish).

I went because I felt It was unfair for some one to change their birthday plans. When she found out I went and the date wasn't being changed she got pissed and we stopped talkng for 3 months. I just didn't get it.

She also doesn't like to drive places. Which makes it difficult to invite her out to gatherigs with other friends and she get mad when the location isn't local but yet she drives to her boyfriends and goes places with him. We have been in fights before and I seem too be the one always saying sorry and fixing the situation even though I haven't done any thing wrong. Is this friendship worth saving?