Ally's Child Abuse Story

Ally from the United States writes: I am 15 years old now. I have been able too heal for almost exactly a year. Most people don't even know all I have been threw but I think now I will reveal it all to you. I was sexually abused by my father from age 3-6 or 7. For years I couldn't remember anything about it. It all started slowly coming back in 7th grade. I became increasingly depressed and cut myself often and abused painkillers in high amounts. Around that time my dad started touching me again. Thankfully I already was comfortable enough with one of my teachers and he helped me make the report and begin again. My sister was sexually abused as well and my mother was too. Now me and my sister and mother have begun a new life. My father is still around and he stalks me but I am convinced one day I will be free.

Ally,

I commend you for taking the step and sharing your story with others. I understand how hard it is to open up to others. I am also glad that you reported the abuse to your teacher.

Dealing with sexual abuse "on your own" can be lonely, confusing, and scary, especially when you’re afraid to open up. And because of these fears, it’s not uncommon to cut on yourself, become extremely depressed, or abuse alcohol and/or drugs when you’ve been sexually abused.

Continue to build your self-esteem, talk to others, and set your boundaries. Once you build a better relationship with yourself, you’ll no longer be a prisoner to your father’s behavior.

I’m glad to hear that your mother didn’t allow the abuse to continue. And I wish you and your family success and happiness on your journey to freedom.

With Love,

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